Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Back to the Budget again!

I feel like I just keep posting the same thing over and over! UGH!!! I'm back to the budget again. I'm feeling a little better and I'm sure that it is because of Hult clinic. The problem is that it is going to cost $130 a month for all of my meds. Now the only good thing out of this is, I haven't set up the automatic debits for the house yet. I'm not normally a procrastinator but for some reason I just didn't get to it yet. So I could use that money but I really want the house paid off early. I can't get the grocery bill down much lower. The only thing that I can think of is to get rid of our little bit of funny money. That would cover it. And then I get the whole feeling selfish thing going on. So does anyone have any money saving tidbit that they would like to share in the comments section? I've got the budget down pretty low but I'm always on the look out for a new tip.
Thank you,
SonyaAnn

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Monday, June 29, 2009

Raising an evil genius





This is a funny one. We are like every other family, we love each other but we can get sick of each other pretty quick. Well, I can always tell when the summer is here, the fighting usually gets completely out of control. And I'm ashamed to admit that I too, sometimes join in. But not this time! This time it was Den against the kids. And I'm happy to report that Den lost this round. Can you tell that I had my fill of him? And on to the story........
This was a couple of weeks ago and I just forgot about it. Anyways, Den and I went to bed(no good news there) and the kids decided to stay up. We said fine after all it's the summer and they deserve some fun too. And I like that they sleep in because then I can get some of my stuff done and it's nice and quiet. I had no idea that any of this was going on cuz I was out cold. But the kids were really loud and wouldn't be quiet. Now part of the problem here was that Den had fallen asleep on the couch for an hour and couldn't fall asleep so he was good and cranky. So the three of them got into a fight. Now I'm not the type to take sides I just want peace. Den being a man just wants his way. So instead of telling them to turn the TV down, he got all mad and pissy(from what the kids said, he said he never got mad) and ordered them to bed. And I do understand his side and he is completely right, it's just the way that he goes about things. His word is law and you're going to do it now. Pretty much like a drill Sergeant would do. And the problem is DJ is my offspring. So the kids complied but were mad about the whole thing. So what did my dear son, do? He went back down stairs and set the timer on the stove to go off 10 minutes before he got up. I know I shouldn't encourage the kids to be disrespectful but I bust out laughing. That stove has the most hateful buzzer that I have ever heard in my life! And the damn thing won't stop until you shut it off. It woke him up and he had to go shut it off. I can't wait to see what the rest of the summer has in store for me. It's ok to laugh, I did tell him he had to listen to his dad and that it wasn't a very nice thing to do. Well, I told him after I stopped laughing. It's still me after all.
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Friday, June 26, 2009

Friend's Friday





And my booger for the day is Andy over at the Tight Fisted Miser! He is an all around great guy and has been so helpful to me since I started blogging. So Andy I pick you as my booger. He even helped me by going though my blog to help me redesign it to make more money. Really, is there anything that can make me more happy? I think not. I'm easily bought with a kind word and money! So lets all snot rocket over there today and say Hi to Andy.
Thanks for Reading,
SonyaAnn

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Yummy





My plan is to put Basking Robbing out of business. Not to brag but this is a keeper! DJ helped me come up with this one and WOW! He needs to go into the ice cream business when he gets older. This is a must try. It's a chocolate coffee ice cream drink!
14 ice cubes
4 cups chocolate ice cream
1/4 cup chocolate syrup
2 cups strong coffee
Throw it all in the blender and blend well! And don't complain about the weight you gain, this one is well worth it!!!
Thanks for Reading,
SonyaAnn

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Weird Wednesday!

This one is a little sweet and slightly odd. Hope you like it.
Thanks for stopping by,
SonyaAnn

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Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Good vibes only

All it seems like I'm doing lately is pouring my heart out here. This has turned into a confessional with a little naughty talk thrown in for good measure. It's weird how I'll tell you everything but in the "real" world I'm much more careful with how I blab. I do have a few very close friends that I tell everything too but here I'm more open about everything. Poor you. Anyways, I just wanted to tell you about what is going on with me. I have quite a few health problems. It's not enough to kill me but enough that there are times that I wish it would. I've been sick most of my life. When I was a kid, I was so thin that I had to go in to get shots. They all yelled at me for not eating enough but I was. And then I had a heart murmur and a valve that didn't close right. Then just to top it off, I was hypoglycemic. So fast forward a lot of years and two kids. I still have all of those problems just add on anemia, asthma, thyroid disease, gall bladder disease, chronic infections and my liver is always a mess even though I don't drink. Weird. And of course, I get the doctors that aren't real bright. I feel pretty bad most of the time. We have very expensive insurance that no one wants to take. I get a lot of "that test would be a waste of resources." So basically I fought for every test that I've ever gotten. And a few times when I couldn't get anywhere, I paid and had my own blood work done. I've done every kind of holistic diet and/or experiment on myself known to man. I just want to feel better. And my favorite, diagnosis from the doctor is depression. They shout it out like they have Tourette's syndrome. Three doctors have diagnosed this without even one drop of blood. It's great, I'm going to start shouting things out at them next time. And if you can think of any creative words just let me know, I'm leaning towards fucktard for my next visit. Anyways, when I finally do get blood work its always my thyroid and anemia. But nothing they do helps so I'm on to a new thing and I'll let you know. I went to Hult clinic in McHenry IL. It's a little odd but at this point what is one more test. They did a complete physical which is something that I have never had done. I filled out paper work that took almost two hours. It went over everything. Even things that I've never thought of. And then(here's the weird part) they ran an electrical current through me(kind a sexy). I've been saying that all of this has got to be related. But that always falls on deaf ears. Dr. Hult was so attentive and actually wanted to help me. If nothing else, for the first time I felt like someone wanted to see me better. Anyways, he ran an electrical current through me(still sexy) and hooked me up to a computer. So at this point he is either so far ahead of the curve it's insane or I was being took. What he was doing was individualizing a treatment plan for me. And here is the weird part, he said that I had no iodine in my system, my gall bladder wasn't working, there was no folic acid in my system and that my adrenal gland and thyroid wasn't working. Weird and when I went home and looked up the symptoms of each one, I had the most common symptoms of each one. He said that if I had had complete blood work all of this would have come up. But because it cost $1000+ for the work up that I needed it was easier just to blame me and say that I was depressed. So typical. Here is the problem, it is going to cost $130 a month to pay for all the meds. So I'm going to try it for two months and see what happens. I can say that I think I'm on the up swing but I'm not going to jump the gun. He uses all alternative medicine so we will see what happens. And what ever this is my sister has it too. He also asked if cancer was common in my family especially in the women. Well, yes, my sister had Hodgkin's, and a lot of uterine cancer and he said that it might be from the lack of folic acid. He was telling me about my problems just by reading going over the computer info. And the computer ran like a diagnostic for a car. It was so weird!!!
So I'm hopeful that I will be feeling better soon. It's been a long time of this. And I would love just to get back into soccer or some kind of activity. So I'll keep you posted. And no sympathy for me I don;t do well with that or compliments,I'm still a strange bird. Just send me good vibes!
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Crap

I've destroyed this blog in an effort to upgrade!
Signed,
The stupid one

Monday, June 22, 2009

Staycation

Well, I'm here to report back on our staycation. DJ loved it. Anna said it was alright. Den shrugged. And I didn't feel it. We decided that it would be fun if we all picked one thing for us to do as a family. DJ chose to go shopping. He wanted a day at the mall. So we did something that we have never done in the kids entire lives. We took $250 and just blew it. Anna, Den, and I bought clothes that we desperately needed and DJ bought a video game and a holster for his air soft gun(boys!). Anna and I went to Plato's closet. It's a used clothing store that only buys designer clothes. And it was fun and something that we don't get to do. Anna wanted to go to the drive in for her pick. So we packed a cooler and lots of candy and went during the week. That was nice because it was so empty. We figured that cost about $40. Den wanted to take the kids fishing and Anna was the only one that caught anything. I stayed home, Ya free time! So the fishing licenses, a couple of new lures and bait cost $53. And I chose Six Flags. We went Thursday night. We got there around 5p.m. and it was really, really empty. I don't know if this was because it was supposed to rain or because they just filed for bankruptcy. It was really strange. None of us have ever seen it that dead. I'm wondering if people aren't going because they are afraid that the service isn't going to be there or if no one wants to invest in a seasons pass because of fear that they will close. Or it could just have been a fluke. But if you are planning on going, Thursday night seems to be a winner. The only thing that they changed and it was quite sneaky was that if you leave after 7p.m. you can't get back in. Not even with a seasons pass. So basically what that means is you can't leave for dinner and come back. Sneaky Bastards. So, of course, it was only 7pm and we didn't want to end our fun so we stayed and ate pizza. My evening cost $30. So next time we will eat around 5:30-6pm so we won't have to pay for dinner.
So it seems like we had fun and we did in all fairness. But here a few draw backs from the whole staycation. The house will still get messed up. And since everyone is on "vacation" no one but mom wants to clean. And the chores that usually take most of the day have to get done a lot quicker so that the afternoon was free to do fun stuff. So I was running around like crazy. Everyone in the end did pitch in but it was not a happy time. The other problem is we tried to cram too many things into one week. These are all things that we would have done just spread out. It was a bit too much in one week. Don't get me wrong it was fun but hectic.
So I'm not sure if our vacation ever gets ruined again, if I'm up for a staycation. If we do try this again, I think I would just let each of the kids pick something and leave it at that. Because if I get to chose it will be taking a nap and/or cleaning. I'm sure that will go over real well with the crew.
Thanks for Reading,
SonyaAnn

I'm an ass!!

Please forgive me for I have sinned yet again. I have not forgotten you all, I'm just having some problems but nothing major, well for me anyways.
First, the kids are off. It's amazing how much time they want. Jeez, it's like I have to take care of them or something!
Secondly, Anna left for OH today. So I had to drive her to O'Hare in all that damn construction. And why the hell are they still charging tolls, they really should be paying us to drive in that mess. Anyways, I'm a little better with it. She is going to be staying only with her Grandmother and her cousin. So I'm almost alright. Almost. And thank you for all of your kind words and pulling me through that little break down! Lots of Love!!
And lastly, we had a bunch of our dear friends flood this weekend. We were blessed not to take on any water but quite a few people were not so lucky. This neighborhood is known for flooding and even though we are on a hill we have flooded with sewage in the past. Yuck! So this time it was just rain water for the most part but still quite a few families have lost a lot. We did our best to help so that's another of my excuses. Our dear friend's Donna and Steve(Donna, leave a comment you stalker!!!) flooded. Donna's parents are here from England and they went out to eat and were trapped on I-94 for hours while their house flooded. So we went over and did the best we could but they did lose their carpet. My family and and my in laws were all going to their house for a get together the next day so we changed it to our house. And then I found out that so many people were dealing with the flooding and tearing their houses apart that I invited quite a few of them over. So we had a lot of people over. We canceled our Father's Day and used all of that food for everyone. It was a ton of work and we were all tired but I think that it definitely helped lift every one's spirits. Well that and all the alcohol, it's still me after all.
Oh and Anna had tennis camp in there too!!
So please forgive me for not answering and coming to spend time with you at your blogs. I will get caught up soon so please don't leave me. I'm just a little slow and it's alright to agree!
Lots of love,
SonyaAnn

Friday, June 19, 2009

Friend's Friday





My booger for the day is Helene over at Coupon with love and Granny Spice. Stop over and check her out. She really is snot bad at all!
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Our FL disagreement

Everyone knows how cheap I am. I like to call it frugal but in the end I just don't want to spend money if I don't have to. But something might be going on with me. It might be a mental episode or something. I could possibly be having a break down, I'm a little askeered. ;-p! But Den and I have actually flipped sides. I want to spend and he wants to save. He has always been the spender. I don't know if our marriage can handle this. I'm just a little freaked out. As you all know we are planning a trip to Florida in October. Why October? Because it's cheaper and less crowded. Go figure. Den's birthday is in October and since Disney is graciously giving you a ticket on your birthday that just sealed the deal. And I bet you are looking for the place where I have fallen off of my frugal wagon. Alright then here it is...... I want to fly and Den wants to drive. Gasp! We only have nine days total four of which would be spent driving. It's about 22 hours from our house to the mouse's house. When I was a kid we would drive and I hated it. Den only went once and they drove. The longest trip we have ever driven is to Alabama and that was when my dad died. We left at like 4am and got there about 10pm. But I don't really remember the trip and it was just a hard time. He said he didn't think that it was that bad of a drive and there are three of us to drive. He is right(chest pains) we would save quite a bit and we would get to explore more but we would have less time in Florida. We have about $2300 set aside for this trip. This is our last family vacation because Anna will be starting college next summer and we will really be broke then. I say go out with style and he is saying to save money. I figure airline tickets are about $175 per person. But if we drive my guess is gas will cost around $400. It would be nice to have a car to go and explore but I don't know. Any ideas?
I just hope this trip turns out better than our KY trip!
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Wicked Wednesday!!





I promise to ruin just about everything for you! Please don't let the kiddies see this one! Click here if you are feeling naughty! Please save me from myself.
Thanks for letting me corrupt you,
SonyaAnn

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Let's talk about.....

I bet you were hoping that I would say SEX! I know me too! But alas it's not a really good sex story. CRAP! It's a little more of a sensitive subject than that. I bet your wheels are turning now. It's about monetizing the blogs. It's a touchy subject because we aren't supposed to talk about money. And I'm really not trying to get you to click on my links.(sounds naughty ;-}) I love to write and I have been blogging about nine months. And I know that all of you that have blogs do it for the love of it too. It's a nice little rush when someone comes to visit and has a kind word for you. And we agree that we will continue to do it out of love. But let's just admit that we wouldn't mind making a few bucks doing this either. So my question is what am I doing wrong? Are you having any luck? I'm making about $.03 a week. And I'm not kidding. Like I said it's for the love not money but still $.03 is almost insulting. So if anyone has any ideas for me, please leave a comment. If you have seen something on other blogs that caught your eye please let me know. Some of my favorite sites that are doing well aren't the most eye appealing. I have read quite a few articles on making your blog more successful and some say that its the set up, others link placement, others say its the background. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas. And please be kind, I'm being honest and open. It would be nice to make a few extra dollars. And I know that some might suggest that I invest some money in the blog and hire a professional but it is me we are talking about.
Thanks for reading ,being kind and leaving a comment,
SonyaAnn

Monday, June 15, 2009

Packed and Ready





Well this is us packed and ready to go on our trip to Kentucky. We are traveling light this trip. Ha! Well, it's obvious that we didn't go. We were supposed to leave last Friday but we are still here. And here goes another story.......
My sister in law(that should pretty much explain it all) decided to rearrange our trip for us. Her and my BIL do very well for themselves and we are broke. I should just stop there because you pretty much got the whole picture. But it's me and I can't shut up. Their son is a couple of months now and we were going to go down for a cheap visit. My in laws let us use their time share and we were going to precook all of our food and bring it with since the condo had a kitchen. We were only going to need gas money and money to take them out to dinner. So we more than had it covered with the $500 we saved. The original plan was for us to spend the weekend with them. One day at their house and one day at the condo enjoying the pool and any other amenities. And then we were going to go during the week to Six Flags( it would be free because we got passes for Christmas) since they had to work and the baby was in day care. Then we were going to go to their house before they got home and have dinner waiting for them and spend more time together. I thought this would be a fun and frugal(my favorite word) trip. But it just wasn't meant to be. They live in an upper, upper middle class neighborhood and. So basically everyone is one upping each other and we REALLY don't fit in. So then my SIL said she would take an extra day off just to hang out. OK that's cool we would get an extra day with the baby and we could just check out all the shops and what not. Then her husband took off and she took another day off. And then we were going to a baseball game, the horse track, fishing, a bourbon tour, and last but not least spending time exploring a really neat cemetery. Because all of those things would be so much more enjoyable to two teenagers than Six Flags. So in the end, we were going to have to spend our FL fund to get to do what they wanted. The kids didn't want to give up our Disney trip in October to spend time at a cemetery. Needless to say, it was a few fun days here. In the end, they overspent our budget. And to answer your question, yes I told her six times that we didn't think we could swing it financially and that we would just stick to the original plans. And the answer to that was well the bourbon tour and the cemetery are free. Do what I do and just plaster a smile on your face and shake your head. The bourbon tour might have been fun for me but I probably would have loosened up enough to speak my mind. Scary.
So here we sit for the week. We are going to try a staycation. I'll let you know how that goes. So if I don't respond right away it's because we are trying to get along in the house instead of the car.
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Needing to Vent





Things aren't going so well for me lately. I have to say that I am more honest and open with all of my blogging friends than I am in the real world. In the real world, I only have a few very close friends that I tell everything to but here I feel safe. So unfortunately, you get more of the real SonyaAnn than anyone else. My condolences!
So I'm going to tell you a little bit of my background. Dennis isn't Anna's biological father but he is without a doubt, her dad. And the few people in the "real" world that have tried to argue that point haven't come out the winners. I admire him so much for this. Anna'a bio-father left us when she was 2. He drained the bank account, had run up the credit cards and took the only car we had and left me with the payments. And then my mother gave him $10,000 to fight me for custody of Anna, they tried to have me institutionalized and have DCFS take Anna. Mind you I was only 22 but looking back on it I was one Hell of a fighter. I ended up filing bankruptcy which was ALL my fault. I was responsible for myself and my bills and I should have put my foot down but was too weak. My ex put me in the hospital and I've had restraining orders against him. And he hasn't paid child support for years. And this is just what he does. He has repeated this with many woman. And I'm really not mad about it, believe it or not I'm glad that I'm where I am now. I believe there is purpose in our journey and I'm lucky. If I hadn't gone through all of that, I couldn't be who I am today. And because of all of that, I appreciate my family even more. I don't hate my ex and his family but I would like for them to leave me alone. But it's just not going to happen. So here is my problem, Anna loves to go and visit them. They do love her and she has a cousin that is her age that she adores. So his mother is flying her out there. His mother blames me for all of the problems in his life. Why not?!? It can't be his fault after all. Den finally told him that he can't talk to me anymore because he is just getting worse. Which is what we should have done a long time ago? He wouldn't dare abuse Den. I just didn't want Den to have to solve my problems so I suffered for years. See how stubborn I am. Anna will be flying out there for a visit in a few weeks. So they booked everything without asking and just assumed that I would drive her to the airport at 3am. So he bullies me and is still forcing me to do what he wants. I told Den that I feel like firing off an angry email asking how are they going to get her to the airport. So Den said if you ask a question and you already know the answer than you are just starting a fight. I hate when he is right! And the upsetting thing is, this is never going to end. Even when Anna turns 18, I will still take care of her. I guess that I'm just upset that they can still force me to do for them, my ex will never pay child support, and threatens me whenever he wants. I try to take the high road and never say anything even when his mother calls screaming at the top of her lungs that I block her calls. To which I answer, well you got threw now, unfortunately. In the end, I will always do for Anna that's just what a good parent does. It just makes me mad that he has no contact with her for 6-8 months at a time and I still have to do for them. I know I could take him back to court but he works for cash and just jumps from one woman to the next and one job to the next. I've tried to get it and he just won't pay and because he moves from state to state and it makes it even harder. I just hope that Karma will intervene.
Please just say something nice so I stop crying. I'm tired of feeling bullied. I have very little contact with my family but because of Anna I still have to deal with my ex and his side. I know in my heart that dealing with them and being civil is the best thing for Anna but it's the worst on me. I could go on for hours about what a SOB he is. Like calling Anna and telling her that he was getting a divorce because her soon to be ex-step mom hated her. And I had to tell her that it was because he was caught cheating again. Or when he kicked her 1 month old sister and wife(different woman) out of his house because he was on to the next woman. When Anna was little, I never flat out said anything, I just pointed out the other side. Now I'm more vocal about it. I know she doesn't like it but I ask her to look at it from my point of view now that she is older. And Anna is very protective of her little sister and I said that is how I felt when he pulled stunts when she was little. So I think that she is getting an idea of the pain he is causing.
I'm not going to change this, I've accepted that. But the high road sucks sometimes!
Thanks for being my shoulder to cry on,
SonyaAnn

Friday, June 12, 2009

Friend's Friday





Hello and welcome to another Booger Friday and today I pick........drum roll..........Ashley over at Living on Ashley's allowance. She was the 100th person to join my cult! So jump over there and start stalking her!
Thanks for coming to see me,
SonyaAnn

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Pecan Sandies





This is a recipe that I've been working on. It began it's life as a shortbread cookie recipe then morphed into a butter cookie recipe and has now become a Pecan Sandy recipe. I've got the recipe just how I want it so it's going to stay this way, I think. My mother-in-law, Donna said this was the best cookies she had ever eaten. I think she is a little bias but I'll take the compliment. So here's the recipe.....

1 1/2 cup of softened butter
2 cups flour
1 cup confectioners sugar
1 cup corn starch
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup pecan pieces

1.) place all ingredients in a large bowl
2.) mix thoroughly with hands
3.) form into 1 inch balls
4.) bake for 20 min(check after 15) at 300
It is so easy and doesn't take long to make. I hope you love this as much as we do.
Thanks for Reading,
SonyaAnn

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Wicked Wednesday!!





This is a super naughty one so I'm only going to give you the link! If you are easily upset, don't click HERE!
Thanks for stopping over,
SonyAnn

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Tribal Name





This is my dog, Jessie. Her tribal name is Oozing Nipple. I love her but she is gross! She has some kind of odd skin affliction. We have spent $100's of dollars on trying to get it fixed. I say hundreds because I honestly don't know. So you know it's bad if I stopped keeping track of it. What happens is she gets little bumps on her. They kind of look like mosquito bites and then they split open and ooze. Gross I know. So the vet has put her on every kind of pill known to man and she might be making up some crap at this point. It acts like an allergy but no allergy medication helps. And then she itches so bad that she chewed her nipple off. Great, it just keeps getting better. At one point, she was so medicated that she turned to look at me with stoned eyes and then just peed all over the carpet. She took a few steps and then fell over. So that was the point that we stopped with all of the pills and started trying to find our own "cure." The only thing that has helped at all is this spray that a Vietnamese vet came up with. It might also be a meat tenderizer. You take an empty spray bottle and add 2 cups of Hydrogen peroxide, 2 Tablespoons of Borax and top it off with water. I know it sounds harsh but all the oozing has stopped as long as I do it every day. And it will clean a carpet and a counter top like nothing you can imagine. One day my carpets or dog may melt. And I cut myself and used the spray and it wasn't bad at all. It didn't hurt and it didn't get infected. Den was laughing that I was like the Dad off of My big fat Greek wedding that kept spraying windex on everyone. So please don't send me hate mail, we have been fighting this for at least a year and a half and this is the best she has been. If you have any ideas what this is, I would love your help.
Thanks for Reading,
SonyaAnn

Monday, June 8, 2009

What the Hell is wrong with you?

What the Hell is wrong with you? That has to be the phrase that is muttered by about everyone in my life. I've come to accept it and I'm having a shirt made. I don't do things like I'm supposed to. I can't fit in and I don't play well with others. And this post is going to be one of those things that comes back to bite me in the buttock. So if you get upset easy or you are a tattle-tail just leave(said with love and admiration). I'm going to post this and then take it down after a couple of days. And your thinking, "Why would you do that, chicken shit? If you have something to say than say it and don't back down!" And I agree with you but there is a little thing called the law and most times it gets in my way. As with any on going investigation, your not allowed to talk about. And the little light goes on. And me being me I'm going to talk about it! Once again, this is the beginning of me getting into more trouble. So if it seems slightly vague, I legally have to protect the aggressor because the bitch is innocent until proven guilty! Be prepared for some cussing.
Anyways, on with another psycho SonyaAnn story.........
A few weeks ago, Den and I went grocery shopping after he got home from work. No problems! So we unloaded and got the kids in bed. We stayed up for a little while and then went to bed. No sex(boo) just sleep. So I woke up to the phone ringing at about 1am. And like everyone reading this, you just panic cuz you know someone is dead. So I answer it and some guy asks for my husband saying that he is an old friend. So I wake up Den and lean in bad breath and all to listen.
The guy then tells Den. **** Pause in the story, please if you really get upset easily stop reading, all kidding aside. I think the world of you all and I don't want to upset you. If you read past this point it all on you.**** So the guy tells Den that he is coming for him. He is going to break in our house with all of his "boys" they are going to hold him down and f*** him. And then they are going to continue to hold him down while they rape his wife Sonya and force him to watch. Then he is going to get his daughter Anna and rape her in front of him and next he will rape his son DJ. And he used all of our names and then rattled off our address. In my life, I have never felt the fear that I felt right then. It was one thing to threaten us but it goes right threw you when they say terrible things about your kids. He then said that he wanted his parents phone number and address. If his parents didn't give them money they were coming for all of us. And they wanted $40,000. I mean really who the hell has that kind of money in there house. So at this point, I'm jumping up and down and telling him to hang up. Den keeps shushing me and starts asking him questions. And I have no idea how the hell you could be that calm when someone is threatening your kids. I have to be honest, I would have threatened him right back! And the guy actually gave Den his number. He was that bold. It was a prepay cell so it can't be traced. Den kept talking to him and the guy said he was just out of jail. Great! Finally when Den didn't think he could get any more out of him, he hung up. And then we called the police. They were great. The guy even called back and talked to the police officer. Balls! And threatened the cop. He has no fear. In the end, he called back 25 times. So you are probably wondering why us? Well my MIL's sister is a drug addict and a prostitute. It looks like she hooked up with this guy and they are trying to get drug money. My in laws changed their numbers and moved and we were the only ones they could find. My husband's aunt gave this guy all of our info. And since they are drifters, no one can find them. Just flipping perfect. This was a few weeks ago and luckily they haven't showed up here. But I can't help but worry. We did have one scary moment. I was getting the kids ready for school and this beater car pulled into the driveway all the way even with the house. And that is about two+ car lengths. When people turn around in our driveway they always just pull in enough to turn around and then leave. They didn't, they pulled in and stopped. So in all of my wisdom and stealth abilities, I start yelling get on the floor, get on the floor! Anna hit the floor in the kitchen and I grabbed DJ by the face and threw him on the floor. And then the driver looked around and then in our front window and then left. I'm not sure what was going on. I think that they were at the wrong house. But I still don't know. And I have to say that I'm quite strong when I have to be. DJ flew and bounced! In the end we called it out practice run. Fun times are always had by all here!
So that's what has been going on here. No one can find them and we feel like sitting ducks. My karma is a mess. I make cookies for everyone at Christmas, I'm not a terrible person. But I had to go to both schools and tell them that someone wanted to f*** my husband up the@$$. Lovely! Both of the kids had police escort at school for a while. So being sensitive parents, we of course told the kids but left a lot out. They were both concerned that they would be sexually assaulted. Rightfully so. To make them feel better I told them that the guy would probably be so worn out after Den that they would be fine. I never thought I would see the day that I would have to be worried about Dennis being raped! Only me. Some bloggers have to make crap up for their blogs, not me I just have to answer the phone.
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Friday, June 5, 2009

Friend's Friday



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So it's another Friend's Friday and today my booger is......Boondock Ma! She is so sweet and I just love her stories, she even wrote about dragonflies just cuz DJ loves them. So jump over there and give her a big kiss!
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Throw Ice Cream on it



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This is my yummy mess. What is the best way to fix something in my house? Throw ice cream on top of it. We were having people over and my vanilla cake fell. Don't you just love things like that? So I dished it into little cups and threw ice cream on top of it. So our desert went from strawberry shortcake to strawberry shortcake with yummy ice cream on it. It also was very good with chocolate syrup on it. And yes, I'm just fat at this point. So what do you do when life gives you lemon, say "To hell with it, give me the damn ice cream!" And that would be a SonyaAnn life lesson.
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Wicked Wednesday!!

Hope you enjoy this naughty little clip!
Thanks for stopping over,
SonyaAnn

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Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Pictures of the yard


This is our house. We just about have the yard together so I thought I'd show it to you. So when I complain you will have a better idea of what I'm talking about. So this is our house, the gray tri-level that I'm always talking about.
This is just a closer look at the flowers under the front windows and the front stoop. We are in need of a new welcome mat but the dollar store was out so I'm going to try again sometime this week. I'm so not paying more that a few bucks for something to wipe out feet on.

This is my little garden right out the back door. If you look at the bottom corner of the garden you can even see my green onions that I wrote about.

This is the flower garden behind the house. And there is even a water fountain in there. Den and I bought it on clearance in October for our Anniversary. It was $200 marked down to $40. See I practice what I preach.

This is a little better shot of it.

Our little park bench next to the garage. It's pretty much like everything else we own, it's well worn but works.

This is Anna's playhouse from when she was little. I still decorate. I know that I should give it away but I'm not ready to let go of it yet. It just seems to belong here. I've gotten rid of pretty much everthing that isn't a necessity but I just don't feel like I need to let this go.

This is the back of the house from the deck.

This is our dangerous and very fun pool. Den and I replaced the old pool and deck a few years ago. That was a major project. And just after we finished it and spent all of our money, the roof started leaking! But of course, would you expect anything else from me.


And this last one is of the slide, it came with the house and is still standing. It's probably 25 years old so I figure that it will collapse when I try and use it!
Thanks for stopping over for the tour,
SonyaAnn

Monday, June 1, 2009

Life lesson gone with the economy

Well, I don't really know what to do about this one so I'll just complain to you. Anna has been looking for a job for the summer. Mind you she is waiting until right before schools lets out so it doesn't interfere with finals. So this might be aggravating the problem. But school work will always come first. Anyways, she is like so many of her friends and can't find anything. Even Six Flags in Gurnee has had the pick of the littler this year. Anna's teenage friend's were complaining that they were competing against adults with their degrees to sweep the grounds at the park. I understand that its the economy. And if I were in the position to hire someone, I too, would be more likely to hire someone that was desperately trying to support their family over a teenager. It's just so sad that she may miss out on a valuable life lesson. I believe that she needs to have a good work ethic to make it in this world. And how many of the teenagers today won't have a job until after they get out of college if they can get one. I know this recession won't last forever but it might last long enough that our kids won't get to experience all that comes with a first job. The discipline it takes, dealing with coworkers crap and the joy of cashing your first check. Anna is still cleaning her Great-Grandfather's house every weekend for $25 but she also has quite a few bills. She has to pay for her parking permit at school($80), her insurance($114 a month), any dances, $250 for the year for sports, $200(ish) for sports camps and of course fun money. So it is looking like she will be short this year. I wish I had it to give her but we don't and I think that it builds character if you can take care of yourself. Most of her friend's that do have little jobs got them because their parents knew someone. And unfortunately, we are pretty low on the totem pole. So I have been trying to come up with an ideas for her. Her grandmother is coming up with a list of extra chores for a few bucks. I said to advertise with flyers in her retirement community for help around the house. We are asking around to see if anyone needs a sitter. She is still going to canvas the mall to try and come up with a job. But if you have any ideas of how she could make a job for herself, I would be so grateful!
Thanks for reading,
SonyaAnn