I can only add - to those who fuck off: Don't fuck back unless your attitude has changed big time.
Your post about sums it up. My mental stability is ok, but me heart is broken. I will be glad when this day is done
Elephant's Child-Yeah, they pull shit then they want back only to screw everything up again.
Anne in the kitchen-Honey, I hope that you are better today. We all go through some miserable shit but remember that you aren't alone. We are all screwed together.
Ha, mine moved out in 2010 announcing that he was "in love". Wanted to move back in 2 weeks later. Sod that. That's how I got my divorce. Fast forward and he has now upped sticks and moved back to the States leaving € 32,000 worth of debts here and not even clearing out the rental house. The poor sod that he is "in love with" this time actually put a photo of him and my kids on Facebook wishing a happy father's day to her honey. Then he got all gooey and thanked his honey. Excuse me while I chuck up. I actually don't wish her any ill but my God she is in for a shock. Still, better her than me. And I really don't mean to be so cynical as I know there are many, many lovely men out there - I just ended up with the prat. So if you are in Pennsylvania, look out. And Anne in the kitchen, chin up my dear, you will get through it and be the better for it. Anna
Bwahahahaha! You, my friend, ROCK!!!
Treaders-Anna's bio left when she was 2. He hooked up with a woman that decided she hated me. I guess it is easier to blame me than look inward. Anywho, when they hit the skids and they always do, she came crying to me. WHY WOULD YOU COME TO ME????? I was polite but wanted to get away from her ASAP. It seems to indicate a low IQ. But I stayed friendly cuz you know that saying, my enemy's enemy is my friend. I really, really, hope that you sell his shit. Ok I have a new plan. This isn't going to last for long and she will kick his ass out. Tell your ex that you had water in the basement and that some of his stuff was damaged. But sell it and make sure that it is all gone when he comes back. So he really has nothing. Yes, I might be diabolical. He won't care since he is so in love about his stuff now but when it ends, he will.
ChiTown Girl-Or I'm terrible.
You know, Treader's post reminded me of when MY ex left. He left a ton of crap behind. I just let it sit until I decided to move, then I started leaving messages for him to come get it. I even offered to leave it outside the door so he would not have to come in. We had a "double entryway", so you had to be buzzed in, so I figured I could just put it out there when I know he was on the way. He never came to get it, so I donated a some of it, put a bunch of it by the dumpster. And kept one or two boxes of things that I could not bear to toss even though it was his...pictures, year books, pre-marriage photo albums and some records. Those were handed by my attorney to his attorney. His attorney asked my attorney where the rest of it was. I said "dumpster". She almost peed herself from laughing so hard.Good times.
Frances-It is best to get away from some people at all costs. WHen we are in the thick of it, it is hard to see that but it was the best for all of use to get away from them.When I went to court to fight for custody of Anna, it was a big ol' mess. And in the end, they made him leave the court house because he was trying to hit/intimidate/kill me. HIs pregnant lawyer finally got sick of him and just said, "go." she was so disgusted with him. She looked at me and shook her head. So when it came time to negotiate, she didn't put up much of a fight. Honestly, it was quite nice it just being me, my lawyer and his lawyer. It was actually friendly. I told her flat out the only thing that I wanted was to claim her on my taxes cuz he wasn't going to pay child support anyways. She got mad and said then you take his ass back to court. Yeah, he really was that bad.
happy fathers day mom
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